My Approach

  • A lot of people ask about the approaches I use in therapy. This is important and I do use several evidence-based models, but honestly, I the most important piece of therapy is the relationship. Therapy works best when you feel connected, seen, and understood. If we’re not a good fit, that connection can be harder to build—and that’s okay. I’m not the right therapist for everyone, and I always want people to find the support that truly works for them.

  • My work is rooted in family systems theory, which means I look at how our early environments shape the way we relate to ourselves and others. I often draw from attachment-based therapy too, exploring how our early bonds impact communication, connection, and emotional safety in adult relationships.

  • For clients dealing with overwhelming emotions, I often use DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy). It’s a practical, skills-based approach that helps with managing emotions, mindfulness, and coping with distress.

  • I’m also certified in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), which is especially helpful for processing trauma. It helps people reprocess painful memories so they no longer feel as intense or triggering.

  • With clients navigating OCD, I use ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention), a highly effective treatment that helps reduce compulsions and build resilience to uncertainty.

  • When working with couples, I use the Gottman Method, which focuses on improving communication, repairing conflict, and deepening emotional connection (all based on decades of research into what makes relationships thrive).

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